My son Eric has been a student of Special Education his whole life. He has received Specialized Education and Speech/Language Therapy since the age of 3. However, by the 2nd grade Eric still could not read. He has always had a love of books and they are an important part of his life. He would make up stories as he paged through the pictures. We always thought this was cute, until one day; I was reading a bedtime story to Eric and when I was done he looked at me and said "Mom, how do you know what to say when you read my book?". I told Eric that I read the words and they told a story. Eric then asked "Are those marks in the book the words?". I knew then that there was a something missing in Eric's education. We knew he did not know his alphabet completely, we knew he did not know more than 2-3 sight-words, we knew he could not read-yet. What we did not know was that he did not understand the connection between letters, words and stories.
A week later I saw a postcard for Harp Learning Institute at a local business. I had Eric assessed and we started Eric at Harp Learning Institute at the end of October 2008. The first ah-ha moment was realizing that even though Eric worked hard as a student and received a-lot of academics he was not "connected" and therefore he was not able to process what he was being taught. Harp Learning Institute identified the need to create and deepen the connection from Eric's eyes-to his brain-to his body.
Harp Learning Institute opened up a whole new world for Eric. He learned his alphabet by writing with his finger in sand. He put letters together to make words by playing with letter tiles and a white board. He learned how to connect his eyes-to his brain-to his body through the daily exercises he is taught at the Institute. Most importantly Eric learned he was "Smart". He just needed to learn in a nontraditional setting.
Everything started to come together for Eric. He not only progressed in academics, he improved in his self-esteem and his peer relations. Eric became very comfortable with himself. On March 31, 2009 Eric read a book by himself for the first time. Eric had such a feeling of joy, confidence and yes even some arrogance. For the first time in 8years my son knew he was "smart-just like the other kids".
Our story is not unique. There are a-lot of children just like my son out in the world struggling to learn. They are beaten down and dejected wondering why they can not learn like everyone else. They think they are dumb-even if nobody has ever called them dumb-they know something is different. What I tell my son is he is a unique individual with many special talents, the fact that he learns in a different manner does not make him less intelligent than any other child. He is an intelligent, gifted child in his own right. Through Harp Learning Institute Eric has learned this. It is embedded in his very being. He will carry this ability to strive above the crowd his entire life. Without the intervention from Harp Learning Institute we would continue to sit in the same repetitive cycle with Eric and wonder what we are doing wrong, why isn't anything working.
Harp Learning Institute gave Eric a priceless gift. The gift of learning, the love of knowledge and the many magnificent things he can do with it.
Eric is now a "reader" and I am still "just the mom".
Kathleen Lewis